Wednesday, December 3, 2025

A Christmas Memory by Truman Capote: A Poignant Glimpse of Childhood and Holiday Joy Week 12

 

A Christmas Memory by Truman Capote: A Poignant Glimpse of Childhood and Holiday Joy

If you want a Christmas story that feels deeply personal, bittersweet, and quietly luminous, A Christmas Memory is a perfect choice. Written in 1956 by Truman Capote, this lyrical short memoir departs from the usual holiday tropes of carolers, grand feasts, or bustling family gatherings. Instead, it captures a fragile yet radiant slice of Capote’s own childhood, filled with love, poverty, eccentricity, and the simple magic of small traditions shared with someone who truly understands you.

The story takes place during the 1930s in rural Alabama, where seven-year-old Buddy—Capote’s stand-in—lives with distant relatives. His closest companion is his much older cousin, a gentle, childlike woman in her sixties who has never quite fit into the adult world. She is poor, whimsical, and brimming with wonder, and she and Buddy are inseparable. As winter rolls in, they begin their cherished holiday ritual: baking fruitcakes.


Not just one or two fruitcakes—thirty fruitcakes. They gather ingredients with painstaking care: scrimping pennies, saving for whiskey to send the cakes “with a kick,” and foraging for pecans in frosty orchards. They bake in their little kitchen with joyful chaos, sending their prized cakes off to people they admire from afar, including President Franklin D. Roosevelt. The act isn’t about recognition or reward; it’s about giving something beautiful simply because it brings them joy to give.

Capote’s writing here is gently nostalgic and achingly beautiful. He describes the world through a child’s eyes—sharp yet innocent—while layering in an adult’s understanding of how fleeting these moments are. The cousin, unnamed in the text, becomes the heart of the story: an eternal child in spirit, seeing beauty in stray dogs, old coins, and winter sunlight. She gives Buddy the kind of unconditional love that defines a childhood, and he, in turn, reveres her as his truest friend.

There’s a wistful undercurrent to the story, because the reader senses what Buddy does not: this is their last Christmas together. Soon he will be sent away to military school, and the gentle world he shared with her will vanish. Yet the tone is never heavy. Instead, Capote lets the joy of their simple rituals glow brighter because of their fragility.

“It’s always the same,” she says, “a morning arrives in November, and my friend calls out to me… ‘It’s fruitcake weather!’” That single line captures the essence of the story: how certain moments of joy become eternal in memory, even when the people who gave them to us are long gone.

At under 30 pages, A Christmas Memory is a brief read, but its emotional depth lingers. It’s not a loud or bustling holiday tale—it’s quiet, reflective, and deeply human. If you want a Christmas story that celebrates not just the season but the fleeting beauty of love, friendship, and childhood wonder, this little memoir is unforgettable.



It's fruitcake weather! Here are some more things that are unforgettable and more tasty than fruitcakes: 

Classic Christmas Holiday Gift Card or Money Holders



Colorful Pelicans with Christmas Message Canvas Print





Christmas Holiday Bead Set



Christmas Sterling Silver Charm Bracelet w Swarovski Crystals



Cardinal Giclee print



Hanukkah Metal Ornaments Stained Glass






Snowmen Birds Christmas Earrings, Red White Handmade Holiday Jewelry

Santa's Favorite Hot Mess Sweatshirt for women | Christmas holiday party wear

Blue Morning Expressions



Other countdowns to shop from: 

Looking for some Christmas reading that's different from the more popular tales? Check out these lesser known publications. You might find your next tradition. 


If you don't see what you're looking for, then ask an artist. I'm sure they will be happy to design something special for your loved one. 

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Julie and the Hairy Harry Dog.


Wednesday, August 31, 2022

Sizzling Summer and Giraffes

 

Volume 19 Issue 9, September 2022

What's New in September?

Getting ready for the fall! So many days of 90+ temperatures has me thinking that Autumn will soon be here, or at least, wishing it was. The tropics have been a bit on the quiet side, so I will take that as a good thing. September is our peak month for hurricanes here in Florida, so anything is possible.

As for things that I have accomplished, those can all be counted on one hand. The hand that I had surgery on. It is still not comfortable enough for me to hold tools for long, so I have been concentrating of writing more than I am on designing jewelry, beads and canes. I think my hand needs the extra rest.

On the other side, I have done a lot of writing, and there are two finished first draft manuscripts, and a novella in the works. I count myself lucky that I am able to finish the pieces the first time, but going back seems to be a bit daunting, so I just raise more monarchs and take photos. Our last release was 13, and those were mostly girls. Hmmm.

We went to the zoo.

 

 

What’s New

New Earrings:  In addition to fractal earrings, I added some pretty flowers and other colorful beads.

Thimbles: New Christmas and great grandma thimbles, as well as faith-based thimbles with bible verses.

New Book: The Joy of Jewelry Making Create for fun. Sell for Profit is now available on Amazon in both paperback and ebook formats.

You will find all of my beads, canes and finished jewelry on my website. www.bluemorningexpressions.com

Until next month,

Julie

Here are some of the things I have been writing:

http://www.julielcleveland.com/trivia

http://www.julielcleveland.com/the-florida-life

http://www.julielcleveland.com/writers-toolbox

http://www.julielcleveland.com/e-commerce

Things to Look Forward To:

New Products:

Pushpins: I have too many themes to mention here, but from teachers to nurses to friends, I am doing designs as quickly as I can.

Statement Beads: Working on large beads for ZOOM calls and being on camera. Both earrings and pendant necklaces.

Prints and Posters: Bible verse posters and other art featuring hot rods and more are in production.

 

Sunday, July 31, 2022

Summer Heat and Monarchs

 

Volume 19 Issue 8, August 2022

What's New in August?

It’s been rather hot here, but not as hot as the rest of the country, never mind Europe. We’re used to being hot, but we are no where near the heat in London or other EU countries. I pray that the heat abates.

My monarch nursery was successful the second time around, and though I thought I had six little eggs the last batch, I had somewhere in the neighborhood of 17, which taught me the lesson of taxing the environment that I wanted them to live in, so I am being more cautious for the next group.

In the meantime, I have one more butterfly that will come out this morning, and I see about six or so caterpillars on my outside milkweed. I am thinking about nursing them along, but don’t know if my plants will hold up. A dilemma. 

My hand does not fully function yet for those fine motor skills, so I have been putting off trying to hold tools with it. It was coming along and then I tripped and fell. I used that hand to catch myself on the concrete. It is just now functioning again, so creating beads and jewelry has been out of the question for a bit. I have mobility back, so I expect to get moving on new things soon! It’s almost time for Halloween and the Fall!

In the meantime, enjoy a baby from our nursery.

monarch butterfly in nursery

What’s New

New Earrings:  In addition to fractal earrings, I added some pretty flowers and other colorful beads.

Thimbles: New Christmas and great grandma thimbles, as well as faith-based thimbles with bible verses.

New Book: The Joy of Jewelry Making Create for fun. Sell for Profit is now available on Amazon in both paperback and ebook formats.

You will find all of my beads, canes and finished jewelry on my website. www.bluemorningexpressions.com

Until next month,

Julie

Things to Look Forward To:

New Products:

Pushpins: I have too many themes to mention here, but from teachers to nurses to friends, I am doing designs as quickly as I can.

Statement Beads: Working on large beads for ZOOM calls and being on camera. Both earrings and pendant necklaces.

Prints and Posters: Bible verse posters and other art featuring hot rods and more are in production.

Thursday, June 30, 2022

Monarchs and Milkweed

Volume 19 Issue 7, July 2022

What's New in July?

I’ve been nurturing a butterfly nursery all month. It started several months ago, but ended up with me needing to chop down my milkweed and eradicate some nasty little pests in it before I could even think about trying to give monarch butterflies a place to lay eggs and become butterflies.

In the end, it took months, but I did manage to create a habitat that was conducive to the care of little caterpillars. It was not without some downfalls and some adjustments as I learned how quick those things were when they were on the move towards building a chrysalis. Never mind that there were weather issues like a storm that blew the top off the cage.

After seeing the caterpillars grow, chasing a few wayward ones that found the most minute hole in the screen to wriggle their 3-inch body through, we had a successful launch of three adult monarchs. In the meantime, I learned how to determine the sex of the monarch, unfortunately, it was after two had already left. My last launch was a female.

monarch caterpillars on milkweed

We already have four more eggs on several plants, so we’re ready to put the screen back over the plants and watch the miracle of monarchs start over again.

What’s New 

New Earrings:  In addition to fractal earrings, I added some pretty flowers and other colorful beads.

Thimbles: New Christmas and great grandma thimbles, as well as faith-based thimbles with bible verses.

New Book: The Joy of Jewelry Making Create for fun. Sell for Profit is now available on Amazon in both paperback and ebook formats.

You will find all of my beads, canes and finished jewelry on my website. www.bluemorningexpressions.com

Until next month,

Julie

 

 

 

Things to Look Forward To:

New Products:

Pushpins: I have too many themes to mention here, but from teachers to nurses to friends, I am doing designs as quickly as I can.

Statement Beads: Working on large beads for ZOOM calls and being on camera. Both earrings and pendant necklaces.

Prints and Posters: Bible verse posters and other art featuring hot rods and more are in production.

 

 

 

Tuesday, May 31, 2022

 

Volume 19 Issue 6, June 2022

What's New in June?

It’s almost hurricane season again, and for the seventh time in as many years, NOAA is predicting an above normal year for hurricanes and major hurricanes. I will spend my Memorial Day weekend doing my hurricane shopping since we have tax-free shopping on hurricane preparations. I don’t remember in the past dog food being tax-free, but it is this year, so Harry’s in luck. Big bag of kibble for him!

I got my carpal tunnel surgery done the end of March, and it’s still a bit stiff, but it’s getting better every day. I have not been able to bead or make jewelry because the palm of my hand is still tender, and that’s where my tools sit in my hand. Course spoons and spatulas bother it, too. No cooking and no beading!

While I wait on it to stop being so sensitive, I have been doing a lot of writing. I am over halfway done with my second novel in a series. The first book is a crazy mess that I have to unscramble before I can do any more, but I wanted to finish the second one before I went back to the first one since I am on a roll.

My local library now has my trivia book and my jewelry book on their bookshelves. I am so excited! Time to start working on finishing up my 1960s music trivia book now.

Since not much has been going on, the only photo I have to share is my blooming Christmas cactus.

 

What’s New

New Earrings:  In addition to fractal earrings, I added some pretty flowers and other colorful beads.

Thimbles: New Christmas and great grandma thimbles, as well as faith-based thimbles with bible verses.

New Book: The Joy of Jewelry Making Create for fun. Sell for Profit is now available on Amazon in both paperback and ebook formats.

You will find all of my beads, canes and finished jewelry on my website. www.bluemorningexpressions.com

Until next month,

Julie

Things to Look Forward To:

New Products:

Pushpins: I have too many themes to mention here, but from teachers to nurses to friends, I am doing designs as quickly as I can.

Statement Beads: Working on large beads for ZOOM calls and being on camera. Both earrings and pendant necklaces.

Prints and Posters: Bible verse posters and other art featuring hot rods and more are in production.

 

Tuesday, May 10, 2022

Crepe Myrtle and a Forgotten Post

 Volume 19 Issue 5, May 2022

 What's New in May?

For only the second time in the 18-year history of Blue Morning Expressions did I forget to write and post a newsletter. April is missing, and I am sure that part of that can be explained. :)

 I had carpal tunnel surgery at the end of March; I quit my daytime job at the newspaper; and I embarked upon new avenues of employment. The most significant was the surgery. It took me several weeks to get into the swing of things; although, I did not lose the ability to type, I did lose my stamina rather quickly.

I am happy to say that this is behind me now, and while I am still a little shaky on the creative side since my hand muscles are slow to get back into shape, my pain level is almost zero and I can use my hand again. I spent a lot of years with a numb hand that could no longer cane. I hope to get back to making flower canes again as soon as I can!

 On that note, there are not a lot of things new in my little corner of the world, but there are things coming, so stay tuned!

Here is something to enjoy while waiting for me to get back together. Lichen on crepe myrtle—an interesting study in contrasts.



 








What’s New

New Earrings:  In addition to fractal earrings, I added some pretty flowers and other colorful beads.

Thimbles: New Christmas and great grandma thimbles, as well as faith-based thimbles with bible verses.

New Book: The Joy of Jewelry Making Create for fun. Sell for Profit is now available on Amazon in both paperback and ebook formats.

You will find all of my beads, canes and finished jewelry on my website. www.bluemorningexpressions.com

Until next month,

Julie





Things to Look Forward To:

New Products:

Pushpins: I have too many themes to mention here, but from teachers to nurses to friends, I am doing designs as quickly as I can.

Statement Beads: Working on large beads for ZOOM calls and being on camera. Both earrings and pendant necklaces.

Prints and Posters: Bible verse posters and other art featuring hot rods and more are in production.

 





Wednesday, May 4, 2022

Mother's Day Countdown 2022 Midweek 9 Famous Mothers

 


She was born in 1939 in Bennettsville, South Carolina where her father was instrumental in encouraging her to continue her education. And she did. She went to Spelman College, as well as Yale. Her academic achievements awarded her a scholarship that took her to France, Switzerland and Russia.

As soon as Marian Wright Edelman arrived home in the 1960s, she plunged into the Civil Rights Movement. That got her arrested, which spurred her to go to Yale and study law. She took that education and became the first African American woman to be admitted to the Mississippi Bar, and she went to work with the NAACP Legal Defense and Educational Fund in Mississippi where she focused on the racial issues of the 1960s.

She was elected as the first Black woman on the board of trustees at Yale, and she was influential with Martin Luther King, Jr. and Hillary Clinton.

She met and married Peter Edelman in 1967. He was the assistant to Robert F. Kennedy.

Marian was the mother of three children, but three was not enough for her. She founded the Children’s Defense Fund in 1973, so she could be a voice for poor and disabled children. She worked to get congress to overhaul the foster care system and advocated for youth pregnancy prevention.

She is the author of numerous books and many have a focus on the importance of children’s rights.

The Edelman children have gone on to advance their mother’s cause. One is an educational administrator; one is an education advocate and founded Stand for Children, and one is an Academy Award winning documentary producer who got his award for O.J.: Made in America.

Marian’s words should ring louder today than at any other time: “We must reject any leaders who for any reason play political football with our children’s lives and our nation’s future."

Here are some great gift ideas for your Mom, Grandmom, Auntie and anyone else you honor as Mother from some very talented handmade artists. 

Hearts And Swirls Wood Wall Art Handmade From Oak Wood

Kevs Krafts



Vintage Rose Flower Gift Tags – Set of 12

Adore by Nat



Artisan Lampwork Floral Heart Pendant Necklace Onyx Glass Beads w Crystals

Magdalene Jewels



Pink Copper Bronze Heart Earrings

Victorian Style Treasures



Sacred Heart Catholic Church 8x10 or 11 x 15 watercolor print Tampa Florida Historic print

WatercolorsNmore



Crystal Heart Earrings

Lindab142



Love My Dogs Necklace, Ceramic Fluorite Amethyst Dog Handmade Jewelry

Shadow Dog Designs 



Dark Red and Pink Crystal Heart Earrings With Sterling Silver Ear Wires

The Singing Beader


Red Heart Earrings for Women Dangle with Silvertone Leverback

Blue Morning Expressions



Don't see what you're looking for?

Here are some more places to shop handmade from these artists:



If you have something special in mind for Mom, then ask one of the artists on this page to bring your vision to life with a custom work of art just for Mom. 

I hope you enjoyed our famous mothers series. It was not easy to write because I didn't want to focus on the usual suspects like Gwyneth and Blythe or Goldie and Kate. I wanted to find women who made an impact with both fists and stomped their feet in case you weren't listening. I think I found them. 

Happy shopping,
Julie and Little Harry